Dear Maria: One, Too Many?

QUESTION:

Dear Maria,

First I hope all is well, Doll!

Secondly, so, recently I’ve been dating. I’m currently intrigued in two gentlemen and I’m a little torn. Gentleman number 1 is a trainer, tall, dark and handsome, but lacks a bit of time and the dates are spread out. He’s totally my type physically, but still waiting on the personality. Now, gentleman number 2 is the opposite: extroverted, dates are more consistent. He’s a little rough around the edges, but as you know – we like rough. He treats me like a princess, but physically he’s a little different from my normal. I like them both for different reasons.

It’s fun right now, but gentleman number 2 is expressing his feelings and I’m just not there yet. I kinda like gentleman number 1 more. What do I do, MARIA? I need you!

Xoxo,

Rim Kardashian

ANSWER:

Hi there, darling!

Thank you for writing in and yes, all is well! I cannot complain. Cheers to you for having a steady and booming dating life during the pandemic. Your situation sounds very "hot girl" to me and if you really want to know my opinion, I say keep them both to be honest. You haven't mentioned much of a commitment from either of them other than that #2 is expressing he's starting to have feelings, but feelings don't always mean anything, no shade. What actions are they taking to make you feel like you have to focus on just one?

I understand the appeal of #1 because obviously physical attraction is super important, but you're still also attracted to #2. If you must choose, I would suggest going with #2 as he seems most promising in a potential future bae, and your only gripe with him is he's a little rough around the edges. That can easily be fixed. Have a Kimye moment and start dressing him and glowing him up ;) If #1 is already lacking the effort to make time for you and you don't even really know who he is personality wise, then I don't see the luster in him as a choice other than a hot body. Although, free trainer = no COVID 15lbs!

Quarantine may be coming again very soon, so I say: choose wisely because a Corona-bae is such a reward in itself, and as I said, ain't nothing wrong with keeping them both for now. ;)

Have fun, baby! I wanna be just like you in 2021.

- Maria
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